12/16 – Our Annual Holiday Pot-Luck Party

Celebrate the season with kinky friends old and new!
Show off your culinary skills! (Or shopping prowess)

Tuesday,December 16, 2014 at 7PM. (note the early starting time)

Toney Roses 65 E. Jefryn Blvd, Deer Park, NY 11729

Beverages, paper goods and utensils will be provided by Long Island Leather N Roses.

Join in the Kinky Progressive Grab Bag!

Grab Bag gift must be wrapped and should be valued at $10 to $15.

The Party is Free for paid up members of Long Island Leather N Roses

Guests and non-members are welcomed for a mere $10.00 (might as well join!)


If you are a member of Fetlife RSVP HERE

If you do not know what Fetlife is CLICK HERE to learn a little. OR sign up HERE

Please contact LILNR Coordinators if not a Fetlife member and would like to RSVP to this event, or for more information!

Tues, Dec. 9: Swap & Shop time!

Time to clean out your kinky closet!

Find something new for your toy bag!

Have one too many crops, floggers, canes, etc?

Need a special present for someone deserving?

Some gently used scenewear that no longer fit?
Looking for something new?

Do you make or sell kinky/perverted stuff?

Do you make or sell holiday stuff?

Come to LILNR’s Swap & Shop

Tuesday, December 9th
Toney Roses 65 E. Jefryn Blvd.
Deer Park, NY 11729
$5 for members, $7 for non members.

Doors Open at 8! Vendor set up at 7:00

A fun night of swapping, trading, and purchasing new and/or used items.

Find that special item just in time for the kinky holidays!!

Light refreshments will be served for a small donation.

Interested in a table?


$10 per table for members
$20 per table for nonmembers.

Please bring your own table if possible

Each vendor is asked to donate one item for future fundraisers.

Please contact Wyzasswench for more information!

Hope to see you there!

Tues, Oct. 28: Floggerama !!!

LILNR once again hosts


Check in at the Event Page

Floggerama is a fun-filled event dedicated to FLOGGING! We will start out with a short presentation by Sir Viktor, who will discuss types of floggers, safety concerns, techniques, sensations and forms, and will display his skills with various flogging techniques.

From there the floggers will come out and start to fly. This is the time where everyone will have the opportunity for hands-on practice, socializing, critique, fun, exploration, and so much more. It also showcases the various materials and types of floggers that are out there, from the handmade “Dom Depot” specials to the ornately decorated ones.

We encourage everyone to bring their floggers. Don’t have one? Don’t worry, there will be plenty of floggers to explore and see.

About the presenter:

Sir Viktor is one of the founders of DomSubFriends. He enjoys various styles of play, but his favorites are spanking and flogging. Along with his better Half, Mistress Lin, they own their little girl Elise.

Date: Tuesday October 28

Time: 8-11 pm
Place: Toney Roses
65 E. Jefryn Blvd.
Deer Park, NY 11729
Cost: $5 per member, $7 for non member

Membership is $25 per year

Please keep your floggers and other toys under wraps outside of the meeting room.

Finalists for logo contest: Please vote

LILNR Members: Which logo do you like best?

 current logo cropped LILNR-6a  LILNR-8
1  2 3

Please vote!

Thank you to all who submitted logos in our recent contest. Because some LILNR members said they liked the existing logo, we are keeping it as one choice for you to vote on. It will still appear on t-shirts and some other merchandise.

The logo selected by members will be used in our website redesign, coming soon. The winning logo designer gets a free year’s membership to LILNR.

Voting is open to current LILNR members. Please come to the meetings on October 14 or 28 to cast your ballot.

The winner will be announced at our October 28 meeting. Thank you!

Tues, 10/14: Does BDSM Have to Hurt?

Let’s talk about it: Join us for a conversation on the relationship between pain and BDSM.

Topics for discussion:

  • tolerance levels
  • suffering in submission
  • masochistic tendencies
  • pleasure from pain
  • inflicting sensations
  • sadistic practices
  • pleasure in control

Please share your own questions, answers and opinions!

  • Date & Time: Tuesday, October 14, 2014,7:30-10:00 pm
  • Location: Toney Roses, 65 E. Jefryn Blvd., Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map
  • Cost: $5 members, $7 nonmembers
  • Dress code: Please wear clothes!

Past event: LILNR Ice Cream Social

Vanilla allowed? Sure … plus other flavors. 

You asked for it!

Join us for an evening of discussion and dessert.

Vanilla, chocolate, and other flavors will be provided, plus toppings to mix and match!

Requests welcome but may not be fulfilled

Event Info:

Date & Time: Tuesday, Sept 23, 8-10 pm

Location: Toney Roses, 65 E. Jefryn Blvd., Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map

CostFREE for members, $7 for non-members

Dress code: street legal to the door.


Past event: Erotic Breathplay and Asphyxiation with Mistress Clarissa

Erotic Breathplay and Asphyxiation Play

Date & Time: Tuesday, September 09, 2014 · 8:00 PM –10:30 PM  
Toney Roses

65 E. Jefryn Blvd Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map

Cost: $5 for members, $7 for non-members

About the presentation:

By employing controlled breathing and other techniques we can safely mimic the euphoric and enhancing effects of erotic asphyxiation with none of the risks of this more extreme practice. Both neophytes as well as those well versed in breath play/asphyxiation can find useful information. This presentation highlights and demonstrates various ways to manipulate the human breath with a focused eye on safety, reality, and science. Continue reading

Past event: Self-bondage and self-suspension, with SapphiresBlues

Date & Time:    Tuesday, August 19, 2014 · 8:00 PM –10:30 PM  
   Toney Roses, 65 E Jefryn Blvd Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map
Cost:    $5 for members, $7 for non-members
Dress code:    Street legal casual to the door

About the class

This demonstration intends to cover some of the basics of self-bondage and self-suspensions, as well as address its unique intrigue, motivation and dangers. Self-bondage, as much fun as it is, is also one of the most dangerous practices in BDSM. SapphiresBlues hopes to give tips and tricks for staying safe while still having fun with tying. Anyone interested in self-bondage and self-suspension is welcome to join us. People are also welcome to tie along, if they wish.

Sapphire, though she is still relatively new to the kink scene, took to Japanese Rope Bondage like a fish to water. She has had the great fortune of studying with and bottoming for some incredibly accomplished riggers across the globe, as well as frequently attending conferences across the nation. Consequently, when she first found herself without a rigger nearby, she decided to simply tie herself up, and discovered that that was a good deal of fun too. So it wasn’t long until relentless nagging from her friends lead to her tie others, and to her surprise, she quite enjoyed that as well. According to her friends, she’s not half bad at it either.

About the presentor

Sapphire is the founder of Hitchin’ Bitches NYC. She hosts the monthly “Rope Time with Sapphire” and is a proud member of NYCAIR (NYC Allies in Rope) and BADASS (Baltimore & DC Suspension Squad).

Check in at the Event Page.