Saturday, 9/27: LI Submissive/Slave Circle

Posted by lilnr on September 18, 2014

Come join us for the next meeting of the Long Island Submissive/Slave Circle. If you identify as a submissive, slave, or bottom in a power exchange dynamic, this group is for you. We will be discussing issues related to being in this power dynamic.

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Date: Saturday September 27
Time: 1:30-3:30 pm.
Cost: Whatever you purchase to eat
RSVP here

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Tues, 9/23: The famed LILNR Ice Cream Social returns!

Posted by lilnr on September 18, 2014

Vanilla allowed? Sure … plus other flavors. 

You asked for it!

Join us for an evening of discussion and dessert.

Vanilla, chocolate, and other flavors will be provided, plus toppings to mix and match!

Requests welcome but may not be fulfilled

Event Info:

Date & Time: Tuesday, Sept 23, 8-10 pm

Location: Toney Roses, 65 E. Jefryn Blvd., Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map

CostFREE for members, $7 for non-members

Dress code: street legal to the door.

 

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Past event: Erotic Breathplay and Asphyxiation with Mistress Clarissa

Posted by lilnr on August 28, 2014

Erotic Breathplay and Asphyxiation Play

Date & Time: Tuesday, September 09, 2014 · 8:00 PM –10:30 PM  
Location:
Toney Roses

65 E. Jefryn Blvd Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map

Cost: $5 for members, $7 for non-members

About the presentation:

By employing controlled breathing and other techniques we can safely mimic the euphoric and enhancing effects of erotic asphyxiation with none of the risks of this more extreme practice. Both neophytes as well as those well versed in breath play/asphyxiation can find useful information. This presentation highlights and demonstrates various ways to manipulate the human breath with a focused eye on safety, reality, and science. See the rest of this entry…

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Past event: Self-bondage and self-suspension, with SapphiresBlues

Posted by lilnr on August 8, 2014

Date & Time:    Tuesday, August 19, 2014 · 8:00 PM –10:30 PM  
Location:
   Toney Roses, 65 E Jefryn Blvd Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map
Cost:    $5 for members, $7 for non-members
Dress code:    Street legal casual to the door

About the class

This demonstration intends to cover some of the basics of self-bondage and self-suspensions, as well as address its unique intrigue, motivation and dangers. Self-bondage, as much fun as it is, is also one of the most dangerous practices in BDSM. SapphiresBlues hopes to give tips and tricks for staying safe while still having fun with tying. Anyone interested in self-bondage and self-suspension is welcome to join us. People are also welcome to tie along, if they wish.

Sapphire, though she is still relatively new to the kink scene, took to Japanese Rope Bondage like a fish to water. She has had the great fortune of studying with and bottoming for some incredibly accomplished riggers across the globe, as well as frequently attending conferences across the nation. Consequently, when she first found herself without a rigger nearby, she decided to simply tie herself up, and discovered that that was a good deal of fun too. So it wasn’t long until relentless nagging from her friends lead to her tie others, and to her surprise, she quite enjoyed that as well. According to her friends, she’s not half bad at it either.

About the presentor

Sapphire is the founder of Hitchin’ Bitches NYC. She hosts the monthly “Rope Time with Sapphire” and is a proud member of NYCAIR (NYC Allies in Rope) and BADASS (Baltimore & DC Suspension Squad).

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Past event: The Fire of the Dragon Cane

Posted by lilnr on August 5, 2014

Date & Time: Tuesday, August 05, 2014 · 8–10:30 PM
Location: Toney Roses, 65 E Jefryn Blvd Deer Park, NY 11729 @ map
Cost: $5 for members, $7 for non-members
Dress code: Street legal to the door

Do you know the “Fire of The Dragon”? Adam And Gillian’s Sensual Whips & Toys heard about Dragon Canes as being something unusual … special but rare. After searching for years, they have imported a limited quantity of this unique rattan. In this class, they will explore its lore, its alluring qualities, and its comparison to regular canes.

Bottoms say this rattan delivers an extra wicked sizzle when it makes contact. The Dragon Cane’s nasty streak makes it particularly delicious for masochistic cane lovers and evil tops.

For those who want to try to “train the Dragon”—or their partners—there will be canes on hand … and a supportive audience.

About the presenters
Since the ’80′s Adam & Gillian have been making and marketing hand-crafted “implements of affection” and all manner of toyture devices in their Copiague workshop. Back in the day, they pioneered the discussion of sexual interests and alternative lifestyles on the information superhighway as operators of The Utopian Network’s computer bulletin boards. As themselves, (Mitch Kessler and Gerrie Blum) they published The SandMUtopian Guardian, a factual, practical periodical of BDSM information. Want to know more? It’s at: www.aswgt.com/biography.html

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Next “s type” meeting this Sunday, July 27, 11am-1pm

Posted by lilnr on July 25, 2014

Do you identify as an “S type” … a submissive or slave, or anyone interested in being the more submissive half of a power-exchange relationship?

meditating-buddhist-womanIf you’re on Long Island, come join us.

The next meeting is Sunday July 27th from 11 am to 1 pm. RSVP here, contact Ldydreaming and CutiepieLI on FetLife, or email LdyDreaming@yahoo.com. See the rest of this entry…

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Past event: BDSM relationships: what to do when they end

Posted by lilnr on July 23, 2014

Caspar_Netscher_-_Young_Girl_Holding_a_Letter_(detail)_-_WGA16521The good, the bad and the ugly about breaking up with a scene partner

Most of us have gone through breakups, in and out of the scene, and they are never easy, even for the partner who initiated the breakup. Sometimes there’s no way of avoiding pain or avoiding hurting someone else. But there are ways to try to make things easier, Eric Pride told Long Island Leather N Roses on Tuesday, July 22.

Think of it more as a “transformation”

For many people the word “breakup” means destruction or hatred, while using the term “transformation” can lead to civility and respect, Eric said. Also, people sometimes think a breakup means they’ve failed. Eric suggested instead to cherish the experiences you’ve had together and don’t consider it wasted time. See the rest of this entry…

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Past event: July 22: Eric Pride on Managing Scene Breakups

Posted by lilnr on July 17, 2014

Managing Breakups in the Scene:

The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

When: Tuesday, July 22, 2014, 8-10:30 pm, Toney Roses, 65 E Jefryn Blvd Deer Park, NY 11729   @ map

About the discussion:

An inevitable reality about relationships is that they may not last forever. The same of course is true for relationships in the scene. Breakups are taxing, stressful and very emotional.

In this presentation we talk about why lifestyle relationships sometimes come to an end, how to handle the breakup process, and how to get back on our feet again. Questions we will address include: How are lifestyle and vanilla breakups different? What are “fair breakups”? How do we handle our own and previous partner’s feelings and emotions? How do we deal with family, friends and other people who are affected by the breakup? How do we get back out there? See the rest of this entry…

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The pleasure of Tantric erogenous zones

Posted by lilnr on July 17, 2014

Finding your pleasure zones

Michaels and Johnson pictureCan touching the tip of your partner’s nose, or stroking her little finger, turn her on?

Perhaps—these are two of the “tertiary” erogenous zones that lovers wishing to have a more intense experience might consider exploring.

Teachers Michaels & Johnson talked about using erogenous zones during their hands-on class at the July 8 LILNR meeting.

Offering a demonstration on each other as they explained each zone, the couple encouraged audience members to pair up and try tantric touch on each other. See the rest of this entry…

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Past event: July 20: LILNR’s annual picnic!

Posted by lilnr on July 14, 2014

Featuring Bob’s famous St. Louis Carolina ribs!

 

Barbecue by  Jessica Merz on Flickr

Not actually Bob’s ribs, but you get the idea.

Date: Sunday, July 20, 2014
Time: Noon to 6:30 pm
Location: Bethpage State Park Picnic Grounds
Cost: FREE! ($8 parking fee at the park)
Dress code: comfy clothes (this is a public park)
Don’t forget sun screen and bug spray

Directions: From the Southern State Parkway Take EXIT 28 (rt 135) NORTH – Syosset Take EXIT 8 (Powell Ave/Bethpage State Park) Make LEFT at Powell Ave Make first LEFT into Park Head straight to parking booth – park in picnic area   @ map

Look for the LILNR banner! We will have a spot waiting for you, along with a beer/wine permit. 
Please, no hard liquor. LILNR will provide paper plates, utensils, and random other things.

BYOS

Please bring your own stuff: food, beverage and charcoal. Some people get together to share their charcoal and other goodies. Most of us bring extras! It makes for a fun kinky family atmosphere.

Bring a ball or two, bring a racquet. You never know who you can pry out of a chair for an impromptu game. Volleyball may be the game of the day! Frisbees are always a hit!

While the event is FREE, please respond to the RSVP (link below) so Bob knows how many tables to round up. 

This is a meeting of kinky people in a vanilla place with people of all ages and persuasions around us. Though it should go without saying, please keep you clothes on the vanilla side and no overt BDSM play in the park.

RSVP: FetLife Event Page

 

picture by Jessica Merz via Flickr Creative Commons
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