Tues, Dec. 17: LILNR Holiday Pot-Luck Party!
Join us for a Pot Luck dinner to celebrate the season!
Here’s a perfect opportunity to show off your culinary skills to a most appreciative gathering. We start early, at 7 pm, to have more time for socializing.
Beverages, paper goods and utensils will be provided. We also have trays to keep food warm.
Progressive Grab Bag for those who wish to participate.
Grab Bag gift must be wrapped and valued between $15 – $20.
RSVP by December 12th.
Please message Ldydreaming with your food contribution. Appetizers, entrees, side dishes and desserts are all welcome!
| Date & Time: | Tuesday, December 17, 2013 · 7:00 PM –10:00 PM |
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| Location: |
The Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map |
| Cost: | **Free** for paid -up LILNR Members. Guests are welcome for a nominal fee of $10.00 |
| Dress code: | Festive! |
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Photo courtesy Open Clip Art by Johnny Automatic
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Tues., Dec. 3: Swap & Shop
Time to clean out your kinky closet … or find something new for your toy bag?
Have one too many crops, floggers, canes, etc?
Need a special present for someone deserving?
Some slightly used kinky clothes that no longer fit?
Looking for something new?
Do you make or sell kinky stuff? Do you make or sell holiday stuff?
Come to LILNR’s Swap & Shop
Tuesday, December 3
Location: Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
Address: 2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735
$5 for members, $7 for non members.
Doors open at 8 pm; vendor set up at 7:30 pm.
A fun night dedicated to swapping, trading, and purchasing new or used items.
Find that special item just in time for the kinky holidays!
Light refreshments will be served for a small donation.
Interested in a table?
SPACE IS LIMITED—RESERVE NOW!
$10 per table** for members
$20 per table** for nonmembers
Please contact Wyzasswench for more information!
Hope to see you there!
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**Each vendor is being asked to donate one item for future fundraisers..
Photo by Manu (ErosPyramide20090221_295) [CC-BY-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons
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Tues., Nov. 19: Sadists and sadism fishbowl discussion
Last March, Long Island Leather N Roses hosted a “fishbowl” on dominance and submission, and it proved to be a very lively evening with lots of questions. This time we’re tackling the topic of sadism.
The format of a “fishbowl discussion” is quite simple: Questions or topics are submitted by the audience or panel members in written form on a slip of paper and placed in a container (or fishbowl). The questions are pulled out and read, and the panel members are first given a chance to respond. The discussion is then opened to the floor, where the audience is encouraged to participate.
Check back to our website here for more information about where to submit questions. If you have something on your mind that you want addressed before then, please email LILNR_Coordinators@yahoogroups.com.
Date: Tuesday, Nov. 19, 8-10 pm
Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map
The doors open at 7:30 pm.
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Photo courtesy myheimu on Flickr
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Tuesday, Nov. 5: Rope Bondage: It’s Knot Difficult
Presentation by Jim, AKA Vigilant60.
Tuesday, Nov. 5, 8-10 pm
Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map
RSVP: FetLife event page
Rope is a very versatile tool in the kink tool chest. Sensual or sadistic, bondage is sexy fun. As versatile as rope is, many people find it daunting and give up without ever really trying. This meeting is designed for beginners to teach basic ties that are the building blocks of bigger scenes. You’ll learn cuffs and restraints that are sure to get the party started! Experienced riggers should attend to learn a new perspective or trick and to help out others.
If you have rope, bring it. Three pieces 25′ – 30′ and two pieces 12′ – 15′ is fine. A 1/4″ diameter works best for most people. Don’t have rope? Don’t worry! LILNR rope dudes have rope to lend and LILNR will have rope sets for sale. If you can’t wait to get started, click here for a guide to a basic rope kit.
If you’re planning on being tied, comfortable, form fitting clothes are best, with loose fitting a second choice. If you’re tying, wear clothes that allow for easy movement.
We encourage people to buddy up and tie each othe,r but consent is key. No means no.
Our presenter, Jim, is relatively new to the kink scene but his energy and enthusiasm have taken him far. A craftsman by nature and profession, Jim has embraced rope as his erotic tool, happily tying the happily tied. Jim is a coordinator of LILNR and a facilitator or LIRR. Apart from his bondage talents, Jim designs and constructs suspension rigs and all manner of fun BDSM furniture.
Check in at the Event Page. Doors open at 7:30.
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Photo courtesy Jbc01 and originally published on AussieRopeWorks.com, via Wikimedia Commons
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Past event: Oct. 22: Show & Tell
Pinchy, Clampy, Squeezy, Sucky & Scratchy Things
Tuesday, October 22, 8-10 pm
Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map
RSVP: FetLife event page
Floggers, whips, paddles, canes, slappers and straps are fun, but this meeting is about different kinds of sensation that don’t involve impact: those pinchy, clampy, sucky, squeezy and scratchy things we use in play.
Clothes pins and nipple clamps are just the beginning! Creative uses of chopsticks, suction cups, hair clips, twine and other odd household objects abound. And then there are those vampire gloves and bear claws that give such a thrill!
This is a show ‘n tell format. Bring your most interesting and useful toys and perversions. And please feel free to lend your body to help demonstrate how some of these sensations work.
Your master of ceremonies for the evening is Spike-NY. Spike has a penchant for doing nasty things to nipples and has been playing with pinchy, clampy, sucky, squeezy and scratchy things for more than a decade.
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Past event: Single Tail Whips, with Sir Howie
Cracking the whip
Tuesday, October 8, 8-10 pm
Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map
RSVP: FetLife event page
Sir Howie will discuss with us different types of whips, whip care, safety, and practice techniques. He will also discuss the anatomy of a whip, various types of single tail whips such as a signal whip and a bull whip, and materials. Plus, he will present a demonstration on the techniques for throwing, including Florentine (two-handed) signal whipping and the sensual use of a whip.
Sir Howie has been into kink/Bd/Sm his whole life and has been in the scene for over 10 years. He became interested in whips very early on and began throwing whips while still a sub. Over time, he began to explore and eventually a Dominant emerged from within. A true passion for whips grew alongside his development as a lifestyle Dominant and whips quickly became his favorite toy. Today he can almost always be found with a whip or whips in his hand during any scene.
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Photo courtesy CGoodwin, Wikimedia
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Past Event: Oktoberfest
Oktoberfest!
Saturday, October 5, 2-6 pm
RSVP: FetLife event page
Cost: $15 paid-up members $20 non-members and guests
Dress code: drindl and lederhosen topped with your best gamsbart. Or something comfy!
Come and celebrate!
Have some fun, eat some food, drink some beer (or water or soda)!!
Menu – Sausage, Hot Dogs, German Potato Salad, Sauerkraut, Red Cabbage, Pickles, Potato Chips, Cake, Coffee, Tea, Soda, Water, Wine and Beer.
Prepare to Polka and sing drinking songs! Or to socialize and have a great time!
Crop carrying Dommes/Doms are welcome as are busty frauleins!
Fingerhakeln allowed!
Bierleichen not welcome!
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Past Event: Spankathon! (and business meeting)
Itchy palms? Come join us for the annual Spankathon, hosted by Cassandra Park, with assistant Joey Red
Tuesday, September 24, 7:30-10 pm (business meeting at 7:30, followed at 8 by Spankathon)
Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map
RSVP: FetLife event page
Whether you like it for pleasure, pain, catharsis or something else, if you’re into spanking, this is your night! Bring your hands, paddles, hairbrushes, stern looks and pouty faces. There will be a demo by LILNR member Cassandra Park, Joey Red, and possibly others, and then the spankings may commence. C’mon down to learn, spank, get spanked or just get your jollies by watching.
Please keep your spanking implements under wraps outside of the meeting room. We like this location and don’t want to raise any unwanted attention.
Cassandra (Sandy) Park has been into spanking for years, both giving and receiving. She has published several books on the topic, including “My First Spanking,” an eBook collection of short stories, and “It’s SUPPOSED to Hurt! Volumes I and II,” available in print and as an eBook.” Visit [http://www.mscassandrapark.com/] for more info.
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Past Event: Sir Guy: When the Bad Boys Come for You
Dealing with Law Enforcement
with Sir Guy
Tuesday, September 10, 8-10 pm
Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map
RSVP: FetLife event page
You’re in the middle of an intense play session when you hear hard knocks on the door. When you answer, you see your local law enforcement officer. What do you do? You are travelling to an event, and have all your accoutrement in your checked baggage. You even checked it out with the TSA. Yet, you are being escorted now by airport police. What do you do? Sir Guy, a former NYC police officer, will guide you through the dilemma of dealing with law enforcement and other first responders.
Sir Guy Is a BDSM educator and fiction author who lives a Dominant lifestyle, publicly active in the BDSM scene for almost ten years. He is an Emeritus Member of the Board of Directors of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), its media representative and formerly a Director of East Coast Leather Town Hall and New York Leather Weekend. He and his girl, karida, are holders of the International Power Exchange 2013 title. He is a member of Black B.E.A.T., Feel Me Breathe and MAsT Metro New York.
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Past Event: “I like it with a cherry on top!”
LILNR’s Ice Cream Social
Tuesday, Aug. 20, 8-10 pm
Courtyard By Marriott, Runway Room
2 Marriott Plaza Farmingdale, NY 11735 @ map
RSVP: FetLife event page
Who doesn’t like ice cream?
Join us for an evening of discussion and dessert.
Vanilla, chocolate, and other flavors will be provided!
Toppings to mix and match!
Requests welcome but may not be fulfilled.
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