Links of Interest

The links listed below are presented solely for the interest of our readers. Inclusion here should not be construed as LILNR’s endorsement of any product or business.  All ideas presented are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent the views of LILNR or its members. If you wish to nominate other websites for inclusion on this list, feel free to send the link to the coordinators at: coordinators_LILNR@yahoogroups.com

Only free sites are accepted. 

General Information
BDSM?  What?  Why? How? Intended as an introduction to BDSM, this site is written for newcomers to the lifestyle. It contains information about BDSM as well as links, resources, books, scenario ideas, and so on www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html
BDSM Debunking the Myths An excellent resource for those seeking the reality of our subculture's history, vice what is often propagated on the web. www.bdsmdebunkingthemyths.com
Bondage University Bondage techniques, rope bondage tying tips, information, education, glossary of bondage terms, articles, and advice about restraint play.     www.bondageu.com
The O Zine One of the new breed of “e-zines.” It contains articles on a variety of topics by some well-known people in the BDSM community—a few of whom you may know personally if you are a regular attendee at LILNR or DSF. www.the-o-zine.com
Gloria Brame Dr. Brame is a celebrated author and clinic sexologist. She has written (or co-written) a number of books including the very popular  “Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance & Submission.” This is her personal website included here because of its extensive list of fetish links. www.gloria-brame.com
LI Staylace Association A website devoted entirely to corsets and their aficionados. www.staylace.com
Steel Door An archive of articles that appeared in the Steel-Door Newsletter by the prolific Mistress Steel. www.steel-door.com
The Old Guard
So many people ask for information about the old guard that we decided to include a special section of collected articles on the topic.
Bean, Joseph W. Old Guard?  If You Say So http://www.leathercares.com
Haberman, Hardy & Rubin, Gayle Changing of the Guard http://shogun_lord.tripod.com/Guard1.html
Rinella, Jack The Myth of the Old Guard http://www.leatherviews.com/kinkyinfo/9930.htm
Wiseman, Jay An Essay About “The Old Days” http://www.iron-rose.com/IR/docs/olddays.htm
Other D/s & BDSM-Related Organizations
Black Rose D/s and BDSM group located in Washington, DC. Their events are generally fun and educational. Quite a few LILNR members attend the annual BR meeting and bring back wonderful reports (not to mention the great toys and clothes from the many vendors). www.br.org
CufsMaine BDSM and alternative lifestyle education and support group serving northern New England. Their website contains “newbie” information and safety tips. www.cufsmaine.org
DomSubFriends Founded by Sir Viktor in 1999, this popular New York City discussion and support group meets weekly at Paddles and hosts social events and play parties.  www.domsubfriends.com
MAsT - (Masters And slaves Together) Metro New York Support group for those who identify as Owner/Master/Mistress or property/slave.  All genders and orientations are welcome.  They meet on the first Sunday of the month in NYC. www.mast.net
New England Leather Alliance According to their mission statement, NELA is an organization dedicated to making a safe place in the world for all leather/fetish/SM people through education, advocacy, and charitable giving. www.nla-newengland.org
SSC (Suffolk Supper Club) A social group that meets for dinner on one Sunday each month (except July and August) at a diner in Port Jefferson. There is no website but meeting notices and directions are posted to the Yahoo e-list. www.groups.yahoo.com/group/The_ssc
TES (The Eulenspiegel Society) Located in NYC, the nation's oldest BDSM support group meets twice weekly. TES hosts or sponsors many seminars, demonstrations, social events and play parties.     www.tes.org
Play Clubs
Paddles The oldest play club in Manhattan, Paddles is celebrating its 21st anniversary this year. www.paddlesnyc.com
Papillon Cache This is a private club on Long Island. There is no website. Apply for membership by sending an e-mail to the Dungeon Master at sirgr@aol.com.
Toys, Clothing & Equipment
Adam and Gillian’s Sensual Whips Custom whips, paddles and canes. Located in Copiague (by appointment only). www.aswgt.com
Chaotic Creations Jewelry and collars handmade of silver and semi-precious stones.   www.firescale.com
Cross Dress USA Complete Transformations from head to toe.. Shop on line or visit our store in Babylon Village, NY.     225 Deer Park Ave., Babylon Village, NY  11702  631-587-3655

www.crossdressusa.com

Dungeon Works Planning, design and construction of dungeon furniture, equipment and accessories. From one piece to a whole dungeon. Email  Dungeonworks@aol.com
Eclectic Electric Violet wands, accessories and information about their use and care. www.home.earthlink.net/~violetwanda/wands.html
Fetish Auctioneer Adult toys, bondage gear, leather and latex.     www.fetishauctioneer.com
Hide House Leathers and hides. www.hidehouse.com
JT’s Stockroom Leather goods and toys with a national reputation. www.stockroom.com
KJ Canes

(& other fun stuff)

 

 

www.kjcanes.com

10% Discount to current LILNR Members.

Leather by Danny Large selection of leather and latex fetish wear. A 10% discount is available with a LILNR membership card. www.leatherbydanny.com
Leather Man Large selection of fetish clothing, bondage and leather toys, videos, magazines. A 10% discount is available with an LILNR membership card. www.theleatherman.com
London Boutique Leather and vinyl fetish wear, masks hoods, toys, corsets, collars, etc.  A 10% discount is available with a LILNR membership card. 85 Christopher Street, NYC  212-647-9195
Iron Rose Corsets, shoes, toys, books, videos, furniture. www.iron-rose.com
Pleasure Chest Toys, novelties, cuffs, books, videos.  A 10% discount is available with a LILNR membership card. 156 Seventh Avenue South, NYC. 212-242-2158
Purple Passion Boutique Popular NYC shop offering fetish wear, canes and toys.  A 10% discount is available with a LILNR membership card. www.purplepassion.com
Rainbow Rope Beautiful bondage ropes in every color imaginable plus medical equipment and other novelties. www.rainbowrope.com
Restraining Order Slave jewelry and collars. Owned and maintained by slave catherine, who also includes links, discussion groups and some personal points of view. www.restraining-order.com
Romantic Fantasies Fetish wear, lingerie, and Accessories Boutique. Shop on line or visit our store in Babylon Village, NY.     225 Deer Park Ave., Babylon Village, NY  11702  631-587-3655

http://www.romanticfantasies.com

Snake Pit This Australian site offers hand-crafted floggers, cats, singletail whips and other toys.  They specialize in intricately-woven kangaroo handles. www.snakepitleatherworks.com
The Passional Fetish wear, lingerie, corsets, bondage devices. Shop on line or visit the store in Philadelphia.     http://www.passional.net/
Sites for Personal Ads
BDSM ads; singles, couples www.alt.com
BDSM ads; for slaves www.collarme.com
BDSM ads and chat areas www.bondage.com
BDSM Facebook type of site www.fetlife.com
BDSM Myspace type of site www.mydungeonspace.com
BDSM, latex fetish, mostly gay www.latexpajamas.com
Primarily people looking for sex partners www.aff.com
Huge data base, but mostly vanilla www.match.com
Other Resources
A Lust for Design Professional photographer and graphics artist who does scene photography. Email Brian at alustfordesign@aol.com
Kink Aware Professionals Attorneys, physicians, dentists, therapists and computer professionals who are sympathetic to kink.  PLEASE NOTE: Inclusion on this list is voluntary and no one has screened or endorsed those listed.  It should not be taken as a recommendation, only a place to start. http://www.ncsfreedom.org/index.php?option=com_wrapper&Itemid=75
Kinky Cards Free greeting cards with a kink. www.kinkycards.com
Leather Archives and Museum Located in Chicago, LA&M serves the leather world by preserving material from all leather communities, sending “traveling” exhibits around the country, and providing email and telephone research assistance. www.leatherarchives.org
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Primarily focused on the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities. NCSF works with law enforcement, media and community leaders to support equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual expression. LILNR is a supporting member. www.ncsfreedom.org
Society for Human Sexuality A social and educational organization whose stated purpose is to promote understanding and appreciation for the many forms of adult intimate relationships and consensual sexual expression. Though not specifically focused on BDSM, there are some interesting articles. www.sexuality.org

 

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